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Dear Nadia,
Do men like girls to be noisy?
Thanks,
Cosmo Gal
Yes, yes, yes!
Men are just as concerned as we are that they’re doing it ‘right’ – and so anything that you can do to let him know he’s hitting the right spots will make him super grateful.
If making noise in the bedroom is not something you’re used to, don’t worry, you don’t necessarily have to be screaming from the rafters whilst swinging from the chandeliers – a simple ‘mmm’, ‘ooo’ or ‘that feels amazing’ every now and again really will be enough for him to know that you’re not lying there thinking about what you need to get at Sainsbury’s next time you’re in. Plus there’s two other benefits to undertaking the odd audible gesture that lets him know he’s on the right tracks – one is that he’s likely to reciprocate (if you’ve ever been giving your best oral performance of your life to utter silence then you’ll know how excruciating this can be). Secondly, he gets to learn what *really* floats your boat… which again, if you’ve experienced a guy who jumps haphazardly from one thing to another, even worse if it’s just at the point you’re about to hit the heavens, then you’ll well understand the benefits that are in this for you.
Now get practicing your finest ‘yeah baby’…
With love,
Nadia x