Marriage & Couples Coaching
Have you thrown plates in frustration, threatened divorce, murder or even leaving the planet? The Mars Venus principles provide a sound philosophy based on those annoying differences between Martians and Venusians that we all recognise, but rarely dare to speak of for fear of being non P.C.
We all suspect that men and women are different but now you can find the real reasons why men can't communicate as women do and why women do perfectly logical things that they understand but men find confusing and frustrating.
Something that I regularly hear said about the Mars Venus principles is that they’re so accurate; when I start to share the dynamics that are taking place within the relationship most people are so relieved to find out that they aren't the only couple with these misunderstandings.
People often joke that they finally understand why their partners, and the opposite sex in general, sometimes seem to speak a different language – because they do!
Even if you’re in a relationship that is going very well, finding out and learning more about how we communicate differently can still help you and your partner to iron out the smaller arguments - which often lead to the big ones!!
Sex is another subject that is not often talked about among couples. Unfortunately, it is also an area that accounts for a large chunk of divorces. Women expect men to be mind-readers, intuitively knowing just what to do to bring them pleasure. Men assume that they should know what to do already, as if males are born as sex experts. What often results is great expectations met with disappointment, and thwarted, hit-and-miss attempts at intimacy and sexual fulfilment.
And of course It's easy to get into a routine after 20 years of marriage, however ignorance is *not* bliss when it comes to mutual sexual fulfilment. If you're frustrated or have given up on a satisfying sex life, take heart: coaching gives great information, encouragement, and hope in allowing all those feelings you had for your spouse when you were newly married return – and can help you with awkward moments such as 'No, Susan/Bob - Fellatio Wasn't That Italian Film Director Married to Sophia Loren'
Using the Mars Venus principles I can help both of you to understand each other and understand why you think your partner has been so "difficult" during your relationship, or even understand why you have!
To understand and act on that understanding is a step forward to a lasting relationship with your loved one... find out how here.
"Nadia has made me see my relationship in a completely different light! ... she showed me how to make him willing to share responsibilities within our marriage, without nagging him! I now understand his male mind better... I am no longer resentful, I am now re-buildinging my marriage, and re-kindling the passion, thanks for showing me how Nadia! "
Bronwyn, Cardiff